Mother's Day - its no longer about presents but who I spend it with.

Every year its a struggle when it comes to Holidays. Mother's Day is the worst.
Because my stepmom doesn't like it when I spend it with my biological mother.
Even though I said lets celebrate it early, from her tone she wants to spend it ON mother's day.
And mother's day is always the date I see my biological mother.
I seriously don't know why she can't see that we treat her way better than we do with our OWN mother. With my stepmom we treat her to dinner, and gifts. With my biological mom we eat dinner with her, but she would never let us pay and she's hard to buy gifts for when she can pretty much afford anything she wants.

I feel guilty for not disappointing my stepmom, but why can't people understand that I have three lifes. I have my dad's, my biological mom and my stepmom to please. Give me a break. All the official holidays I spend it with my father and stepmom, its only Mother's day I spend it with own Mother.

Can't being a child with split parents.